Dear Readers,
A lot of things happened in these last two weeks that I did not feel like blogging at all. Well, for many reasons, I didn’t go to the hostel. I was and still am devastated about that if I’m honest. I’ve been commuting from home daily. Classes haven’t really begun. In fact I don’t have a class room, so been whiling away time at the lake in the college or at KFC which is near the college, with my friends. It hasn’t been the first two productive weeks.
On a much much lighter note, I celebrated my 21st birthday on 3rd August. I don’t know how I feel about “being 21”. Let’s see what this year has in store for me.
I’d be lying if I said I planned out my blog. I’d be lying if I said that I completely lost the interest in blogging (I lost interest in everything I used to do for fun). I’d be lying if I said that I didn’t blog only when something bad happened and I was looking for external support. I’d be lying if I say that I’m done thinking about all the bad things and negative things and I’ve indulged myself in them. But I will not be lying when I say that I have come to realize that indulging in only negative things isn’t going to get me anywhere.
This shift in perspective or this realization rather happened because of this You-Tuber whose channel’s called Life-Of-Tom. I try to follow most of his vlogs because of his hyper, life-is-too-short-make-the-most-of-it, realistically positive attitude. If you want to watch his daily vlogs, you can do so on LIFE OF TOM.
I also feel like I take everything too damn seriously. I need to stop doing that. I need to stop worrying. I need to take it easy and just chill out and not overthink things. I feel like that’s one change I want to implement after turning 21. Just chill the hell out. Because life’s too short, make the most of it.
Hope you had a better week. Hope you had a lovely Sunday. As for now, I will be going to order dinner from what’s currently my favorite restaurant and drink a couple of drinks with my parents and go sleep. How was your week? How was/is your Sunday? What plans for the upcoming week. Have a great week ahead.
Regards,
Realistic Beginner.
I will
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I’m very sorry about the hostel situation! That certainly puts a complication on things, but I hope the system is something where you can get it in the next system or quarter? 😦
Your evening sounds like it’s wrapping up nicely, though. I hope you were able to enjoy the dinner as well as the drinks with your family!
Also, 21 isn’t too terrible or rocky, though I admit it’s been a while since I’ve been 21. (And, of course, happy belated birthday!)
As for my week–it was quite nice. I got to spend lots of time with different friend groups and see family. My Sunday wasn’t bad either; more time with friends and family. My plans for this week will be to truly get back on the habit train because registration for the JLPT is soon!
May your upcoming week be a good one!
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They system is you can apply for a hostel room on a yearly basis. So hopefully, by May I’ll get to know about the situation with my hostel room 🙂
And thank you for this wonderful comment 🙂
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College is supposed to be the place where we are in search of. In search of ourselves and what we want to do. It’s natural, keep being positive you’re doing fine.
Love your openness and sharing
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Thank you 🙂
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Lots of questions to answer: My week? Not too meh. My Sunday? Totally meh. Plans for the upcoming week? A few.
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haha xD
Sorry for the late response. Hope you’re doing fine!
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My niece had some of the same problems in college, and I think she found some good solutions:
https://rinth1989.wordpress.com/2009/12/25/beat-the-holiday-blues/
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I’ll read it now, thank you 🙂
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